I will stand by my evaulation that Perhaps Love is commercial genre crap and I woudln't list it as a "best" anything.

You're right. You were nice to En la cama. But I am not confused about which one it is, only in thinking you had warned me against it. Email from you to me in April:
IN BED: I had a nice talk with director Bize. It's a couple talking and fucking over course of one night but well-written and acted, reminds people of Before Sunset, but not quite that good. Will review on MIFF thread soon....
That didn't sell me though due to more detailed critical reviews, which did warn me against En la cama: Ed Gonzalez of Slant ("In Bed is a great porn but a piss-poor drama") Nich Schrager, also online, who said once the sex ends and the "squaking begins, all is lost," and Michael Guillen's summary of various opinions (including Ed Gonzalez's and Manohla Dargis'). Hence since I can't see 50 movies at a festival, I skipped it.

Guillen's column on En la cama.

Reprint of it Twitchfilm's Latin American film archives.

Note: Still waiting for you to check your emails.